I don't normally direct my blog posts to guys. In fact, everything about my business is positioned towards women. I market to women, connect to women and build my service towards women's needs. However, about 75% of my women are investing in my service for the man in her life. So, today, I want to talk to you.
I don't know your story. Maybe you and your significant other have been together for years and years. You've gotten married, had kids, the whole shebang. You love her more than anyone else on the planet and she can still turn you on makeup-less while sweeping crushed cheerios off the kitchen floor. But maybe she's a bit more subdued in the bedroom than she used to be. Or maybe she's put on some weight over the years, and no matter how many times you tell her she's beautiful, she just waves you off. Maybe you're wondering where that confident, sexy, vibrant woman you fell in love with went.
Here's the thing. She is exhausted. She hasn't felt truly beautiful in years. She is spending all of her time and energy trying to be the best mother/wife/employee/boss/daughter/sister/friend/woman she can be. And in the back of her mind is a constant barrage of all the things she isn't measuring up to. Don't get me wrong, we can be really, REALLY hard to be with. *My husband would probably be nodding at this point.* Guess who usually gets the brunt of all that internal pressure that bubbles up inside us? YOU. And you're usually already stressed enough with your own commitments.
What if you could reconnect with the "other woman" inside your partner? What if you could give her a way to reconnect with the beauty in herself? I have recently had more and more inquiries from men requesting sessions for the woman in their life. One man has even said, "if I'd known I could just write a check and give my wife an experience that truly made her feel special, beautiful and happy, I would have done it years ago."
Here are a few things about how a woman experiences my boudoir sessions that you should know:
-When they come to me they are nervous and scared about their session. I know the women on my facebook/website look stunning, confident and sexy (that's what I help to bring out of them) but it is nerve-racking at first.
-Some of them have told me they aren't sure their husbands are even going to want/like images of them like this. So they are going out on a limb even doing it.
-Even though they feel their images are gorgeous, some of them still struggle with knowing whether or not their man is going to love them.
-Some women are also nervous spending so much money on something they aren't even sure their husbands are going to like.
All that said, how cool would it be if you took some of the fear out of the equation and purchased a session for them? Here's how it would work: you pay the sitting fee to purchase the session for them. I then reach out to them to schedule the shoot and you plan a night out the evening of her session (because her hair & makeup will be done and she'll look & feel far too stunning to stay at home). Maybe you even rent a night at a swanky place downtown and have an intimate night alone together. A week later you come back to the studio with her, hold her hand while you look at all of the gorgeous pictures and then help her select the images you want to purchase. Or you send her back on her own to let what she picks be a surprise. Either way, you have not only made your significant other feel amazing, but you also get gorgeous, sexy shots of her that you'll have forever. I'm pretty sure everyone wins in this scenario...
This isn't a magic "fix" if your relationship is really in bad shape. For that, I recommend counseling. But this is an amazing way to reconnect to the woman you love and make her feel like the beautiful, sexy, incredible person she is to you.